Ho Ho Ho....

In the words of that popular song: "So this is Christmas, and what have we done?"

Well, I tell you, after reading some of the emails, that I get to my "mistresses anonymous support  group," I can see that a good many of you "other women" have finally woken up to the depth of lies your MM is telling you (and shockingly, in some cases, ANOTHER woman on the side, as well as you, too!) and you proceeded to take action and dump the bastards!!  I am so proud of you all for that!  Don't be available to provide the "ho ho ho" services for your MM this year - that's what his wife is for, right?

I want to wish you all a very merry christmas, from a freezing cold Vail, Colorado.  I do read all your emails (where ever I am) and get back to you all very quickly, as you know: - especially because this time of year is so damn hard for the other woman.  

Keep the faith (and for those who have read my book - "keep doing your DD sisters!")

Peace and Profits

Sarah J. x 

Lost in Transition!

Hi

Only 6 days into December, and I am already getting a lot of emails from "recovering other women!" (i.e. - those who do want to kick the habit of loving a married man).

I'm not surprised, as this is a really hard time of year for some.  This is a time of reflection, on all we have done, or not done, this year so far, and it is the main family occasion in the social calendar.  Therefore, the festive season can be very lonely for those singletons sitting at home alone. Especially if you are agonizing over what your current, (or hopefully, "ex") married man is doing with his wife and family!  

Ladies, stick to your guns if you are trying to delete the cheat out of your sheets.  Don't live another year of waiting for him to leave his wife in order to be with you!  It will NOT happen. Don't waste your good years on a man who already has a family.. ..better to email me instead and we can partake in a "christmas mistresses anonymous" session ~ who needs men anyway!!

Love, Sarah J. x

"Surviving Christmas as a Mistress!"

Hey Sisters

Are you an SUW?  If so, how are you coping with the festive season so far?  I would love to know...

Email me your stories to sarah@havinganaffairthebook.com if you would like any advice on how to get through this difficult month of December, especially for any woman who is, currently, living her life as the "other woman," at this time of year!

 

Trust me, ladies,  it isn't going to get any better if you are waiting around for a married lover's phone calls to you, between hanging his christmas decorations, and planning his festive activities with his wife, you could be waiting for some time!

Demand more out of life ladies, please.  Get the MOST out of life!

kisses, Sarah J. x

"Tis the Season to be Jolly!"

Sisters,

I wasn't sure what I would write about in my blog today, but it hit me (quite literally) last night at the supermarket, as I cruised the aisles, for a meal-for one dinner, and a bottle of the good stuff, to wash it down with!

"Lo and behold" an advent calendar fell off the shelf and landed promptly at my feet - which made me realize that, not only is tomorrow the first day of December, but, more importantly, that I haven't bought an advent calendar in years - due to the fact that I have always lived as "the other woman."  And, as any "OW" worth her salts, will tell you, we don't tend to buy in to the typical Christmas traditions, as it is too painful to deal with.  Too painful to have to contend with the fact that the man you love, is preparing to "deck the halls" with his wife and family, while you could be sitting at home on your todd, pining for him and waiting for his secret phone calls  (NOTE TO MISTRESSES: check out chapter 11 in my book, called "Surviving Christmas as a Mistress," and other holidays, to learn more!) 

So, now that I am no longer the other woman, I can embrace such, simple things, on the run up to Christmas.  Hence, I went ahead and bought the calendar, and in fact, I'm already looking forward to opening that little door tomorrow to see what surprise lies in there, waiting for me (and I do hope it's a picture of a HOT naked guy!).  Well hello? I said I was "reformed," not perfect!

Jingle jangle, and kisses from Sarah J. x 

"Doing Your Due Diligence!"

Sisters, a quick holiday update for you. As your leader, I have to remind you that whilst it,"tis the season to be jolly," - it doesn't mean you can be gullible or complacent where men are concerned! 

There is a new survey out, which shows that this time of year is the most prevalent time for cheating! All those office Christmas parties along with the cold dark winter nights, are a perfect setting for a cheating married man, (aka MM) to prey on you!

 


But it's not JUST the married men we should be aware of; – the single ones are at it too!  That’s why I encourage ALL women read my book, 'Having an Affair?' – whatever their status in the relationship game, because we ALL have to band together, and be one step ahead of the lies these men constantly use to get us in to the sack!

 *An Important Festive Note to Remember Ladies:  "The only thing your man should be stuffing this season, is the turkey, and YOU!"

 

Kisses, Sarah J. x